Start Today

I started writing my first post for this blog approximately six months before it was published. I wanted to make sure it was the perfect post. And every time I sat down to write, I came up with a brilliant new idea. The result was a collection of more than 20 different drafts that sat in a folder, patiently waiting for that small detail that would turn them into the perfect article. The reason I decided to create this site was to share my story and to help and inspire others in their journey to a simpler, more intentional and fulfilling life. But regardless of how good or bad my writing may be, there is not a chance that I will make an impact or reach anyone unless I start sharing what I have to say.

Getting started and taking that first step is often the hardest part of any new project. Whether it is fear of criticism, lack of clarity or failure to identify the next actionable step, it is easy to become overwhelmed by the magnitude of a project, idea or even what may seem like a simple task.

One of the biggest benefits that minimalism and simplicity have brought to my life is the freedom to design a lifestyle based on my values and priorities, and not on the absurd ideals of success that society has imposed upon us. Once we eliminate the many anchors (usually in the form of physical and mental clutter) that distract us from what’s really important, we are able to set clear priorities, and focus our efforts and resources on taking clear, decisive actions that align with those priorities. It’s critical to always keep in mind that our priorities are not defined by what we say they are but by the actions we take and by the way in which we decide to spend our time and other resources.

But having clear priorities and a good plan is seldom enough. We need to take action and create a process to hold ourselves accountable, stay motivated and monitor our progress so we can recognize when adjustments are needed. Our first step does not have to be perfect. Making mistakes and learning from them is part of the process, and it is one of the best ways to grow and learn about ourselves.

These strategies will help you get started and take that first step towards something great, whether it is a project (personal or professional,) a hobby, a passion or a habit:

Break it down and start small: Although it is important to always keep our overall objective in mind, we need to break projects down into smaller, doable tasks. Taking baby steps and celebrating achievements along the way will create momentum and inspire you to keep going. To help you define the next step, ask yourself the following question: can I accomplish my goal with just one action/task? Most likely, the answer to this question is “no”, in which case, ask yourself “what is the next actionable step that will take me closer to accomplishing my goal?”. For example if your goal is to start practicing meditation, you will likely have to break this down into smaller steps, such as: schedule meditation sessions in calendar, research meditation techniques and apps, talk to someone who practices meditation to get advice and so on.

Be ok with less-than-perfect: I recently came across the concept of Maximizers vs. Satisficers while reading “The Paradox of Choice” by Barry Schwartz (which I highly recommend.) According to Dr. Schwartz “Maximizers are people who want the very best. Satisficers are people who want good enough.” Both Maximizers and satisficers usually end up making good decisions, but research suggests that the constant pursuit of perfection and the need to study every possible option before making a decision, usually results in Maximizers being unhappier and more stressed than Satisficers. Don’t let the pursuit of perfection turn into paralysis, and accept that sometimes “good enough” is good enough. While I am a huge fan of continuous improvement and a perfectionist by nature, this strategy has been a game changer for me and in many cases it has made the difference between endless rumination and massive action. This strategy is not about being mediocre, it is about managing risk, taking action, getting results and experimenting.

Ask yourself the right questions (again and again): One of the main reasons why we fail to take action is fear of rejection or criticism. Most of the time we do this unconsciously and we end up spending our most valuable resources (time, attention and money) trying to meet the expectations and norms set by society. Asking yourself the following questions will help you get back on track and turn your attention back to your priorities:

• What is the worst thing that could happen if I do (or don’t) do this)?: This is a simple but powerful question that will help you put into perspective the consequences of action and inaction.
• How does this add value to my life? You should be able to clearly articulate how your actions and goals are getting you closer to fulfilling your dreams and objectives.
• How does this support my values and objectives? If your actions do not align with your values, you should probably stop what you are doing. Now. And refocus your resources on something more meaningful.

So start today! take that first step that will bring you closer to completing that project, writing that book, starting your website or getting in shape. Celebrate every little achievement and enjoy the journey.